Advanced Identity Reframing: when emasculation becomes a necessity (part 3)

(by Susanne Liu, M.D., for DreamLover Laboratories)

Steps to VS

Step 1: Compulsory viewing under stimulation

As previously discussed, VS requires breaking down the desired action (passive sexual acceptance of sodomy by another male) in small steps. The first step consists in applying slight stimulation to the male's penis during compulsory viewing of well-developed male bodies. Use a magazine, or the internet. Remember that the male is under intense sexual stress because of his castration. Therefore, he will not object to anything in order to receive some stimulation. However, because of the same reason, it is wise to make it impossible for him to touch himself during this procedure. Also, remember to touch him very gently. If he has an orgasm now, you will have to start again from scratch.

When your male participates willingly and consistently to this procedure, proceed to the following step.

Step 2: Enactment of fellatio under stimulation

Another small task a male will readily agree to in exchange for a little caressing is orally attend to a phallic symbol, such as a dildo. Stimulation must be conditional to proper technique (which must usually be taught). When your male participates willingly and consistently to this procedure, proceed to the following step.

Step 3: Compulsory viewing + enactment of fellatio under stimulation

This is where you put together the two techniques; you will require your male to both view photographs of very large and muscular males who are larger than him in muscle and endowment, and at the same time orally service the phallic symbol of your choice. Again stimulation will be applied while he is following these directions and withdrawn if he resists. When your male participates willingly and consistently to this procedure, proceed to the following step.

Step 4: asking please

The next stage will require the male to speak. You will repeat the techniques described above. This time, the male is made to guess a name for each of the male models you will show to him. When this is done, he will be asked to choose one by saying "I like this one". If he cannot say that, or in any way refuses to comply, stimulation will stop immediately and not resume before a day has passed (negative punishment).

Your male will choose a partner. Let's say his name is Juan. The male will be instructed to engage in a conversation with you, addressing you as Juan. He will first introduce himself (begin caressing his penis). Exchange niceties. Then, ask him (as Juan), whether he likes cock. If he says no, stop stimulation and ask again. Stimulation will resume only if he takes part in this role-play. If the role-play can't proceed, interrupt for one day, and try again. You have no hurry; he, on the other hand, desperately needs sexual relief, and eventually will cooperate.

Once you have engaged him in a role-play with Juan on the premise that he does like male genitalia, you will get him to seduce Juan and offer to orally service him. When Juan accepts, take out the phallic object and allow your male to work on it for some time.

If you get to the end of this process, your male has already accepted homosexuality in principle, and the only obstacle to overcome is the actual physical presence of a male, with the resistance that it will inevitably create.

Step 5: Setting up the date

You may already have a "bull" of the house, that is, a sexually endowed male who is replacing your castrated husband and satisfying you sexually. You may also want to integrate the "bull" in your household, perhaps in a live-in situation. This would be beneficial in at least two ways. First, you would have readily available sex. Second, your male would no longer feel as if he should cover any sort of masculine role in the household. The presence of an alpha male would greatly facilitate your partner's identity reframing. When my clients have a bull male, I advise them to choose him for the "date". Especially when a husband is possessive and jealous, finally confronting the bull and tasting what his wife has been getting is highly therapeutic and gives his manhood a powerful blow.

If my client does not have a bull, I advise her to call an escort. He will have enough patience (he's getting paid) to put up with her husband's resistance and potentially the date's failure (not all attempts succeed the first time).

If you decide to go this route, must pick a few males similar to those he has been watching and virtually servicing while you masturbated him. Many internet sites allow you to browse profiles. So choose a few profiles, because he will need to make the final choice. As you know from the previous part of this essay, a male's compliance in this encounter is key to proper reframing of his sexual identity and preferences. Plus, if any resistance arises on the day of the date, you will be able to quickly diffuse it by exploiting cognitive dissonance: "you chose him yourself!".

For the preselection, I recommend picking males who completely shave their bodies, in order to minimize the male's resistance to physical contact.