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One fourth of the units have already been claimed.

At this rate we will run out of inventory in less than two weeks.
Given components lead times, we're estimating a lag of up to 2 months before the next production batch.

If you wish to participate in the Pilot Run please get your order in as soon as possible!

Also: Escrow.com's site is down. If you place an order make sure to visit their site and check if they're operational before choosing the escrow payment method. If they're down you can still choose it but we have to wait until they're back up to start the transaction and your order priority is not guaranteed.

On the positive side bank deposits seem to have been very popular (only two people ended up using escrow) and funds are coming in with no problems. We even had one Bank of America wire arrive in 24 hours.

By Daphne at 2011-03-11 04:00:37 Reply

Sigh I dont think i'll be able to have fun with the DL2000 anytime soon. My boyfriend walked out of my life. I had planned to purchase this product along with a chastity device to use on my boyfriend. I never really explained anything to him mainly because I normally make all the decisions in the relationship. Last week I had the DreamLover website browser open after I left for work(not realizing I didnt close my laptop)

My boyfriend must've used my laptop and saw the site because when I arrived home that night he didnt say a word to me. It was actually nerve racking, until the night passed and the next morning he had to me he wanted to end the relationship before things get out of hand. I told him I didnt understand what he meant and his response was "people you supposedly care about shouldn't be treated like cattle or lapdogs." Once he said this he just came out with what he saw on my laptop the day prior. Long story short, I lost my friend/test subject and its disappointing because I couldnt wait for the product to be released. Now it is released and hes gone..

Sorry for the sob story.... I wish you much success, hopefully I'll be able to use the DL2000 one day

By dreamloverlabs at 2011-03-11 04:51:39 Reply

Hi Daphne. Sorry to hear about your story. Unfortunately it seems you have taken things too fast and not taken your male through the necessary steps in order to enter a willfully participatory training regimen.

Except for highly receptive subjects you should always introduce chastity first, and only later when he's in the MCI period and acclimated to some degree of control add the DreamLover 2000. Please refer to the training section, in particular the new article "Harnessing the male ego" for information on how to introduce chastity aids circumventing common psychological barriers to adoption.

Again sorry about your loss. Hopefully he'll come back at your conditions at some point.

By smackMyNuts at 2011-03-12 20:10:09 Reply

This sort of thing is why I don't really like the cutesy "male training" approach to the marketing. This isn't a "training device". It's a sexual toy to be used by consenting adults. Attempts to use it on an unwilling male will only cause relationship problems. Obviously, Daphne hadn't done that (at least not yet), so I'm not saying that this is her fault and I'm sorry to hear about her break-up. But it's clear that any kind of toy like this is something which needs to be played with only when both partners are willing. I know that the intent of the marketing is to play into people's fantasies, but marketing it as a solution to relationship troubles feels dishonest to me.

By dreamloverlabs at 2011-03-13 05:50:29 Reply

The DreamLover 2000 is a training device based on operant conditioning.

Training should be entered consensually.
This is common sense and obvious to our educated law abiding audience.

24/7 wear and acclimation, immediate stealth retribution in any situation, silent commands - full remote control of a consenting male aimed at deep conditioning and role programming. If you think this doesn't make for a better relationship then you have a pretty pessimistic outlook... ;)

By smackMyNuts at 2011-03-13 20:54:26 Reply

I tend to believe that successful relationships are based on open and honest lines of communication, mutual trust, teamwork, and love. My list of things which make a relationship successful doesn't include immediate retribution (stealth or otherwise), commands, or programming. This may make me naive, but it certainly doesn't make me a pessimist.

Don't get me wrong, the toy you've built seems great. It's a terribly, terribly sexy idea, and if I could fit it in my budget, I would probably get one. And, honestly, seeing all the hard work you've done, I'm not even saying it's overpriced. This is a niche market and the unit cost of smaller production runs is inherently going to be higher.

By dreamloverlabs at 2011-03-13 21:20:44 Reply

Thanks for understanding about the niche market. We show up at the assembly house with ridiculous quantities when the MOQ is 100,000 pieces and have to beg them to take the money and befriend them through crazy all-night karaoke sessions with CEOs who're the very worst singers in the world... plus rounds of mandatory foul smelling sweetened potato liquor in order to get this produced. "Don't worry next time we'll make a lot... a thousand!" - that's when they get that sinking feeling and hope we never return :)

Relationships: lines of communications are key! ...that's why we have the silent commands ;)

By Daphne at 2011-03-14 10:42:11 Reply

I have to agree with smackmynuts. I should have took the time to talk to him about this, rather than just force him into. He has always pleased me and made me happy. I guess he really felt like a I was going to treat him like an animal and not a human being. This wasn't seen as a toy to me when I first researched, and I still dont really see it as a toy. I guess it just isn't for all men.

By Topaz at 2011-03-14 00:03:14 Reply

I am not a fetishist but I am a feminist and radically so, therefore my opinion may differ from that of other women. My male is not locked up so that he can use this as another sex toy and wank to it. That would be turning the whole thing upside down and is totally deranged and so typical of men's sexualizing everything and everyone. Yuck.

His chastity trains him to serve a higher purpose than tending to his own pants. It's his proof to me that he can be better than a wild animal and overcome his penis-centric rapeful nature.

I am not looking for him to get excited from it nor do I want him to. I strongly resent subs or men who make a fetish out of me in any way. Out of my way please. What I wish from him is to endure it for me to the maximum extent that he can do so safely, because he values us and the relationship more than he values wanking and cheating. If he ever tells me he sees something as pure as his chastity as a sex toy he's dumped on the spot I kid you not. -topaz

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