Please visit our theory section and read some of the beginning male training articles, particularly those related to inducing your male to accept a chastity regimen, such as "Harnessing the male ego".
My boyfriend is taller & bigger in size than me , if I suggest this chasity thing to him , he will not accept & give all sorts of excuse to reject the idea.
Hmmmmm.... you don't trick him. He sounds like he may be the dominant one in your relationship. If you want to dominate, take control of the relationship. You may need to wear the eye candy but tell him that you will do so only if he wears the DLL/chastity.
He may still look at others but you now have a way to discourage that behaviour (zappp). If he refuses to wear it, well, find another boyfriend or learn to live as the sub.
Guys are visual, have short attention spans, and have a natural desire to look at shiney things (other dressed up women). You can train them to stop this but it takes work.
Yes, ultimately you can wear the clothes that he likes far longer than he can go with out. Additionally, if you add the negative reinforcement of the DLL MMS when he "behaves badly", you may be able to "train" him out of his bad habits.
Keep in mind that is somewhat "natural" for us guys to want to look. However, it is disrespectful and a bad habit that should be eliminated.
which type of skirts would you recommend me to wear , in order to make me look feminine , powerful & dominant ? some skirts have slits & net underskirt.
As for tops , should it be blouse or strapless tops ?
the material should be satin & silky ?
I'm thinking half slip be worn & shown beneath my skirt to attract my boyfriend's attention.
Wow, I don't think that I have been asked that before.
The effect that you want is the Olivia Newton-John effect (last 10 minutes of the movie) from "Grease". "You are the one that I want"
I would watch him. What does he look at (on other women)? Is he into short skirts (and is the weather warm enough for you to pull that off)? Tight clothes? High heels? Open shoes? Low cut shirts? Showing skin in back? Midrif shirts? Hair up or down?
Additionally, what looks good on you? Are you tall? What will your friends tolerate? Work?
Dress in something that gets his attention but won't set off alarms around you.
I think I will bring my boyfriend to a departmental store & ask him buy me a few tops & bottoms , from there I will roughly know which type will he be more attracted to.
Verlansier, yes you want to use black nylons or fishnets, black high heels and black leather or latex skirts or corsets to entice and excite your man. Men are psychologically turned on to black and see it as power in a sexual setting. It is even better if you can let his see your upskirt into a black panty or thong underneath, and wear the outfit above him in a facesitting or queening situation. Once he is aroused and submissive, you have established your power and are ready to chastise him, deny him orgasm and tease him for extended periods under your control without ejaculation. Your appearance will be necessary to get him through the initial denial period and training period that should take him through day 7 without orgasm. Afterwards, he becomes yours during his maximum courtship period on days 8 to 12. You then should be lifting or removing that black skirt to teach your man controlled penetration and oral servicing of you without allowing him orgasm. spolarski@yahoo.com
Heels and skirts and all the other accessories men fetishize are nice, yes, but attitude and assertiveness is what a Woman really needs to focus on. You can be dressed in all that stuff and still not have "the right stuff," if you know what I mean. The goal is control males, not be a hollow sex object for them.
I am now convinced that the only safe and good male is the one that is under the control of a WOMAN -- and one that does not take any "guff" from an inferior male!!
It sounds like to me he has a strong attraction to feminine clothing. I think it's highly possible that you could introduce something feminine into his wardrobe. Connect it with his sexual pleasure and you will have broken down the barrier. Given time and pulling all the right strings may very well open the door to a female-led relationship where you wear the pants, both figuratively and literally, while he finds himself wearing the pretty skirts,and dresses, and lingerie in the relationship, and submitting to you. Most certainly if you can introduce using the DreamLover 2000 Male Management System to your lifestyle, it will make anything you desire become possible.
My boyfriend is taller & bigger in size than me , if I suggest this chasity thing to him , he will not accept & give all sorts of excuse to reject the idea.
Verlansier