Male training

if you associate his sexual pleasure with any act, he will learn to do it and like it due to the positive reinforcement

Thank you for a very on topic reply. Lots of banter here about theory and provoking commentary but RARE to find an actual CASE STUDY with relevant time line.

Of course everyone would want to know how you decided upon this path, and what criteria you used to "build" your model and execute your programme. We ask for the details as offered. Thank you. Readers will find this most useful.

May we assume you have determined that "hubby" wants this fantasy as much or more than you do, or, are you shaping his psychology for entry into a more permanent bi-chaste relationship with men and He is unaware of your motives, and is being directed willingly down the path of bi-curiosity?

So many aberrations to ponder.
When you decide when the right time has come, will VF be with a stranger? Will an ongoing relationship be desired by you for hubby, or will you prefer He have one or more experiences with different partners. Also, since you are supervising the Programme and it's progress, surely you would hope to be present upon the Epiphany.

The reasons I inquire, is one direction limits experiences and subsequent evolutions, whereas forming a relationship even if supervised, will "open" doors for Hubby to initiate more activities, as closeness develops, all with your supervision and encouragement (read direction.)

This should serve your interests well, meeting your goals and desires.
A developing relationship with another male will likely result in more exploration by Hubby, possibly, no, likely that "penetration" of Hubby will occur as they "explore" by hand each other's bodies.

I now ask, if VS were beginning to be indicated, would you remain silent and observe, would you encourage and begin to choreograph the direction of the activity (what to whom by whom) or would you discourage the trend?

It would be most interesting to readers if you could provide a diary update to your Programme's progress with Hubby.
We note, minimum three month loading chaste period. Is leakage noted, if so, to what frequency and degree? At month four, it is noted you began your VF Programme, and at the time of your reply post, the fith month. We are just beyond three months later (eight months into Chastity). Much time has passed in the vulnerable chaste condition, his VF simulations long ago mastered.

All readers here would likely be most interested in an update progress report. Likely the Grand Event has occurred. We are now curious, HOW you will direct this activity by Hubby in the future. We are assuming his pleasuring another male via VF is something you intend to have him continue for your viewing excitement and pleasure.
Have you and Hubby discussed your sexual needs? I applaud the degree with which you and hubby have established communications at this level, how refreshing!

The perfect natural course in "other circles' would be to have a Alpha become useful to Your personal needs, while also providing you and Hubby with the appropriate outlets for your mutual satisfaction and Hubby's needs to please you, and achieve his ultimate place in life's pecking order.
Bliss in the household. You last remark about "but I never thought I'd be training my hubby to...... either" leaves your door open, just a crack, to the POSSIBILITY, you "might" explore taking one or more lovers, if you were to conclude, Hubby is open to you making decisions for the BOTH of you.

Likely hubby is aware that You are the one to initiate any such activities, but we speculate, Hubby is already having such "thoughts." We further speculate, that he would be extremely excited at the prospects of you exploring new experiences and sharing them with him. Your pleasure should put him over the top.

We therefore ask, what is your initial "take" about you, the Decision maker and another Male, likely an Alpha, but possibly another beta, becoming a triangle and how you perceive hubby would honestly disclose his true feelings.

Thank you for the real life testimonial. We hope to see you post the details of your VF Programme, and we acknowledge that posts such as this open the venue for so many more questions.

How is hubby progressing? Has VF occurred? Did you supervise? Do you plan to continue this mutually pleasing activity? How has your outlook changed or morphed in these subsequent months regarding Hubby's continued bi progress? Will you allow or encourage Hubby's likely evolution to VS?

Again, thank you for providing a template for others interested in following similar desires and fantasies. Feel free to contact me by PM if you should so choose.

Regards, Best wishes for happiness for All,

CB