Thanks for your reply. I guess firstly I need to get him to concent to training. I am a bit shy and a little nervous about bringing up even the concept of chastity, let alone positive punishment.
My main complaint is the way he speaks to me which can be demeaning and embarrassing in public. I read the artice on "how I became a male training oriented marrage councillor" and I thought of introducing the band aid over the mouth technique, but not sure about doing it in public as it might be as embarrassing for me as it would be for him.
Mrs. Taryn, I think you should talk it over with your boyfriend before implementing. Let him know what you honestly want and where you see the relationship headed. If you try the band-aid technique without consent ahead of time, it may go okay or it may go very poorly. Everyone is different in what they want and how they respond.
i agree that you should talk to him. but assuming he says yes. if he does cut the wire he wil not be able to hide it from you. and as far as the nut on the electros - a drop of superglue will prevent him from being able to undo it. (also since it is at the bottom it would be hard to do.
First I must say I find it sad that your BF speaks in demeaning or condescending ways to you. I wish you success in changing his behavior in the future.
Next I want to say how encouraging it is to see that there are indeed women like you that desire to have dominance and control in their relationship. I personally believe that Female-led relationships are the future as both women and men realize that females are better at managing both their families and society. I look forward to the day when women are in complete control of every aspect of society, and males accept their new role as a woman's domestic partner. Hopefully once women are in control, theft, violence, murder, and war will become a thing of the past.
See:
http://www.dreamloverlabs.com/dl2000-pulse.php#pdetect
My main complaint is the way he speaks to me which can be demeaning and embarrassing in public. I read the artice on "how I became a male training oriented marrage councillor" and I thought of introducing the band aid over the mouth technique, but not sure about doing it in public as it might be as embarrassing for me as it would be for him.
Any thoughts?
Thanks, Taryn