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Forums > Education Committee Submissions and Outreach > What? He doesn't want to dance? Soon fix that!

What? He doesn't want to dance? Soon fix that!

November 29, 2010 09:11 AM (4457 views)

I had never learned to dance and always felt awkward and self-conscious on the dancefloor. Apart from a few slows or with alcohol-induced courage, I avoided dancing if at all possible. My partner on the other hand loves dancing and was frustrated by my lack of ability and lack of interest in learning.

She soon fixed that.

My dancing is now somewhere between intermediate and good, and she is very happy. And of course that makes me happy!

I followed Ceroc (jive) classes which appear to be aimed at people just like me. They take you through the moves step-by-step and then make you change partner every few minutes so you don't trample the same girl's feet all evening :-)

Anyway, now she's delighted.

To get me started she had to nag me about it and made me jealous by dancing with other guys. And on a few occasions I wanted to stop because I felt useless. So I was sort of bullied into it.

Now, I'm not too bad and on several occasions it has happened that a friend's girlfriend/wife has asked to dance with me and I hear afterwards that my friend was jealous. When a man says he can't dance I think many women just accept it and don't pursue it. Then when she finds someone else to dance with, they are jealous!

Perhaps a DL-2000 course could offer a different route. Of course, there's no substitute for going to class, so the course wouldn't be about dance technique, but more about the milestones in learning to dance. For example:
1) finding a local dance class
2) going to the first lesson
3) going to the second lesson
4) attending fifth lesson
5) knowing 5 moves
6) knowing how to chain together 5 moves
7) dancing freestyle at a dance evening organised by the dance class
8) dancing in public (outside of dance class)

I found learning pushed me out of my comfort zone, but now I have no regrets whatsoever.

The DL-2000 could provide that little impetus/motivation when there is resistance :-)

Henry

Comments

By aliceinbondageland at 2014-10-09 15:34:19 Reply
I love that mental image... especially since I enjoy men who know how to dance!
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