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Hesitant Keyholder

December 27, 2016 11:12 AM (400 views)

I purchased a cb-6000 and the DL2000 a few years back. My wife and I play around with them now and again but it's really a novelty to her. She isn't interested in the benefits that these devices could give her. I've shown her videos and books on this lifestyle but she doesn't respond the way the articles promote. She's not dominant. And because of her disinterest, I find myself being "dominant" at trying to be submissive. She's very "vanilla" and when I introduced her to these products, it led to her ignoring me more than anything. Would you help me understand what's happening? I've invested a lot into this and I'm at a loss of how she wouldn't be interested in this lifestyle.

manlymanhood

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By GSsub at 2017-01-01 09:52:54 Reply
Have you looked into the Elise Sutton's books and website? I find that to be the most authentic source of how couples can evolve into a femdom relationship. Read her two main books, try to share the books with her and browse her website for real life reports that could resemble your case. Irrespective of femdom, chastity etc, the key thing is that you have a working dialogue with your wife on all fronts concerning your relationship, not just that. If you two are able to talk openly, then femdom will become a more approachable topic.

http://elisesutton.homestead.com/main.html
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