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Postby malechasity214 ยป Thu Nov 01, 2012 10:16 am
i have been celibate for 14 years with no problems almost until i started going to church 4 years ago and the power and control some of the women hold is incredible. i was searching for exercises in spiritual disciplines and a hit brought up male Chasity I started reading the article by Susanne Liu M.D. and decided theirs no way.
i told myself hell these are just exrotic stories
I started out telling myself there's no way in hell i would give up my manhood.
After 4 days of reading male chastity and not jerking off I seem to be dripping like crazy. semen just seems to run out of my cock. At times my knees shake my thoughts are just erratic impulses
My thoughts of a female controlling me have become erotic having her playing with my balls till they explode in her hand is driving me crazy sinking her finger nails in to my balls until I explode begging her to spank me with a branch off of my weeping willow tree all over my ass, legs and inner thighs then whipping my balls until she feels satisfied I will mind her commands I beg her to kick me as hard as she wants in my nuts just to please her and let me lick and kiss her pussy so I can just cum and release this insanity
I love to masturbate but sometimes I feel I do it too much. My wife is at the age where she refuses to have sex as often as i would like. So I have little or no release. You will see by my pic that I am a crossdresser but that has no influence on my sex drive, I have never been with a man but a bit bi curious.
I will go into non-locked up chastity for a few days. I am doing this at this time. After two days I begin to have erotic dreams (which I will not go into unless someone asks privately), I think of nothing but sex and am quite excitable. So far it's been two days and the dream I had last night was so vivid and I almost made a mess in the bed.
I know I spend too much time masturbating but not doing it just drives me crazy. The longest I've been has been 2 months. When I finally climaxed it was over too soon and not as satisfying as I though it would be.
i certainly understand what you are going through.
Before trying to get a woman you know to agree to do what you want, consider thinking about what she actually wants. I gather you don't know what she wants because you are wondering whether your best option would be to indirectly present the idea in a way where she could avoid it entirely if she wanted. At least try understanding what significance your proposal might have to her and what that entails about how you should frame your potential approach.